While helping James tie his cleats at soccer today I got hit (hard) in the head with a soccer ball kicked accidentally by another boy. I wonder if I'll have a nasty bruise tomorrow. It hit my sunglasses off- I was thinking of getting another pair anyway. They still fit but are pretty loose.
I read this story called "
Wedding gift spat" There were quite a number of things in the story that surprised me. It is about a bride whose (unwritten) expectation was they would receive $300 cash. Instead they got a gift basket and this perturbed them no end.
If they had only wanted cash there are ways of politely stating that on the invite.
But the overall thing that struck me (other than the lack of gratitude) was - were these people even friends?
There is no mention of how the people know each other in the article.
If they were good friends you would think someone from the wedding party might have mentioned what the gift expectation was.
If they weren't good friends why were they invited and why would they go?
How close of a friend should you be to go to a wedding?
Finally, should the day be about the wedding and not the money?
I found it amusing that Marlene's perception of the Bach was the same as mine!
Marlene also noted that my book "God behaving badly" is not the same as the book "Gods behaving badly". I have completed most of the first chapter after the introduction and this chapter was looking at if God was too quick to smite people in the old testament. The example they looked at was of Uzzah steadying the ark when it got a bit topply and Uzzah got a smiting because people aren't supposed to touch the ark. Even if you are being helpful and trying to keep it from tipping over. In the chapter he points out (which I hadn't noticed before) that the Israelites were really doing things wrong- they weren't supposed to put the ark on a CART- they had specific instructions about how to haul it around and they weren't following instructions. If they had been following instructions the ark wouldn't have been all tippy and Uzzah wouldn't have died. In a way Uzzah died for the nation. It was a wake up call that they couldn't go around and do things in the way they thought best, as God's people they needed to do things as God thought best. So Uzzah in his helpfulness was a type of Christ.